This is when I get serious about my New Year resolutions.
I know this about me. The first three weeks of January I am still adjusting to the new year. I am still living in the past – 2014 – and still nurturing old habits that no longer serve me. But by the third week of January I really get serious and consistent.
Steady baby steps to keep me on track:
Find a 24-hour gym with weights and a pool to address my crazy schedule. Check.
Buy two new journals, one of which has to fit in my purse. Check.
Buy a calendar/journal to keep track of my writing submissions, contests and ideas. OK, OK and to replace the one I will inevitably lose in my purse. Check.
Buy a larger desk calendar to break down into small bites how I am going to meet the deadlines for those contests, submissions and ideas. Check.
Isn’t it funny how it all comes back to honoring your process and taking small bites?
I get grand ideas of what I want to happen in my life. But if I don’t break them into bite-sized action steps -just three a day – nothing gets accomplished. Three months from now, without baby steps, I could be looking at half-finished stories, songs, recipes and projects and start thinking to myself, “Dang girl, you blew that opportunity.”
This is what comes from knowing yourself. Being gentle with yourself. And coming up with a plan of action to address your process.
With my clients I start with listening to know their process. Some have never slowed down enough to know their process or ever been asked: when have you been successful? How can we re-create that?
That is what I like about starting where you are.
We are all on a journey to be the best we are meant to be. I know my process, how about you? What tools are you packing or releasing so you can be all you are meant to be?
If you need help on your journey let’s talk.
Let’s work together to make this our happy New Year.